In the meantime, here's a question we got from a reader recently.
"What do you think you have learned the most from your haunting?"
Interesting question and one I'm sure I've been asked but probably didn't answer completely or knew how to answer at that particular moment.
For me, the answer is an evolving one. Not just that the answer is always gaining more substance; but I'm evolving.
I was in complete denial when we started having issues. I could not comprehend things beyond what I had already been taught. I'm no longer that way. I've gone from thinking, "that can't happen" to "that could happen."
I believe I've become more spiritual centered, calmer, and open to the possibility of anything. I don't look at the human race as the final step in spiritual evolution. I'm no longer that naive to think we are the center of everything and there's no other worlds beyond our own. Thinking that way is laughable to me now. People sometimes say to me, "Science hasn't proven the existence of that." My answer to them is "It's hasn't proven it doesn't exist either."
Since I've become this way, I've been much more relaxed and things that use to bother me no longer do so. I think it's because I am no longer confined to the conventional way of thinking and more to acceptance of the differences within my environment.
The thing that I can honesty say now is I'm no longer scared or freighted. I've learned to identify what's a threat and what isn't. Having that mentality allows me to take the necessary and appropriate action.
So, in a nutshell. I'm open, centered, and calmer than I've ever been. It's all thanks to our experiences and the understanding of them.
Thanks for the thought provoking question!
If you have a question, we encourage you to ask. Our goal in sharing our story continues to be to help those who are suffering and just need some courage to get the help they need. No one should suffer in silence.